Sunday, November 22, 2009

Blue moth, blue mood, blue prewrap, Blue Monday!


I have become very fond of Smiling Sally's Blue Monday posts! I appreciate all the comments, have found some wonderful blogs through this, enjoy seeing what everyone else has posted, and have had fun finding some blue of my own. This post is a combination of a previous post and a new one. First, I have to share the old post with you. You may be wondering where the blue is. Well, if you look really closely you can see some in the black area on the bottom wings of the moth. After reading the post you may be able to tell too that I was a little "blue".'

This gorgeous polyphemus moth was found on my back patio the morning after a graduation party for my son. My mother urged me to grab my camera and take a picture of it and I am so glad I did! Not only are the colors and markings beautiful but it brought with it a life lesson for me.

As we were going in and out of the house cleaning up from the night before I would glance over to see if it was still there and to get one more look at it's beauty. Then, so quickly, it was gone. I came inside and said to my daughter that I was disappointed the moth wasn't here anymore. “Well”, she said, “it can't stay forever”.

My son is like this moth. Graduating from high school and getting ready for college he will be leaving soon. I will not be able to glance over and see him and I will be disappointed that he isn't here anymore. The years have gone by so quickly but like that moth he can't stay forever. He has to fly too. So, for now, we will just enjoy the time we have before he has to leave.

Good Luck, John!

(now maybe I'll finish those purses, the door hanging,etc.!)


Now, for the new part of the post.

My son is home for the Thanksgiving holiday and has had no trouble at all getting back into the swing of things as far as teasing his sister goes. In an attempt to keep her prewrap (something she uses to pull her hair back when playing sports) from her he threw it over the balcony from our second floor and accidentally into this lighting fixture. I may never have noticed it but since I'm now sort of noticing blue a little bit more it didn't get by me when I spied it out of the corner of my eye. This will require a ladder to retrieve it, something I am not exactly happy about, but instead of getting upset I just remember that he will be "flying" away again in a couple of days. He can't stay forever and we will miss him again!

20 comments:

  1. Karen, that is a neat life lesson! Like you, I'm thankful for Blue Monday and the other memes where I've gotten to know and have met some very nice bloggers like you.

    Hope you have fun with your son, and that moth is very, very beautiful.

    Happy Blue Monday...

    XO,

    Sheila :-)

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  2. It is so bittersweet how quickly they grow up!
    Enjoy and savor this time with him home
    and Thanksgiving blessings to you!!

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  3. Siblings, they fight and tease each other when they are home and you think you might want to pull your hair out. But I will tell you something, when they are all grown up and gone, it is quiet and empty and you sometimes wish for that moment...just sometimes...LOL
    That is a pretty moth, I love how you captured its beauty in your picture!
    Happy Blue Monday!
    ~Ann

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  4. Oh they do grow up so fast. Both of my daughters are grown and on their own. I love when they visit and I am blessed when I see the lovely, generous, caring women they have become. Life's Lessons....so important and thank you for sharing.

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  5. That's a beautiful moth!

    I have Blue Lips for BM. Happy Thanksgiving!

    Following your blog now..

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  6. Lots of beautiful blues! Happy Thanksgiving

    Our last days in Korea

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  7. Pretty moth out there. Happy blue Monday.

    Mine is here

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  8. Oh yes! They surely do fly away too quickly! But now I have my children, their spouses and my grandchildren who come to visit. Time goes on but those memories of youth linger long! Happy Blue Monday! I've signed as a follower...hope you'll come for a visit! Coralie

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  9. Ahh, big brothers and what they do to torment their siblings! LOL!
    Happy Blue Monday and Happy Thanksgiving!

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  10. awww thats a nice capture :) but im afraid of big moths.. ive heard that powders come from their wings can make u blind.. is that true?

    u may view mine here

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  11. Happy Blue Monday! Oue children grow up too fast! My youngest son is away at university and I only get to see him now at Christmastime. He'll be home in about three weeks; can't wait to see him! Have a wonderful week.

    Blessings,
    Sandi

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  12. What a neat analogy! I too, have one son and one daughter who still like to tease and taunt one another, and they're each parents themselves! I love your chandelier. Happy Blue Monday and have a Happy Thanksgiving, Karen.

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  13. That is a beautiful moth........and don't kids gow up fast. Mine just turned 20 and I thought where has time gone. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your Family while you are all together this Holiday.

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  14. Such lovely thoughts and words. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday, Karen.

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  15. I feel for you. I dread that time to come. Happy Thanksgiving

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  16. What a lovely life lesson and pretty moth.

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  17. Hi Karen, I will be facing the same soon enough. Colt, who is the author of the book is 16, and finishing his grade 12 this year. He will be off to University. He's my baby.
    The book is not available in the States. The girls have been ordering them through us. Of course it would be signed by both authors. I'm so proud of them. If your son loves high tech. action he would love the book. You can go to www.jakelorde.com and take a peak. The comments are wonderful.
    Happy Blue Monday Karen, and thanks for asking.
    Oh and I love your fixture.
    Love Claudie
    xoxo

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